?My kid doesn?t connect to me? parents complain.
I reply:
?This is your need. A great need, but your need.?
Instead, I encourage parents:
?Connect to what they need. Where they are at.
Are they in a mood to talk?
Are they in a mood to play?
This is what connection really means.
A deep attunement to the other?
Devoid of one?s own ego.?
? Dr. Shefali
